Monday, December 03, 2007

A nice cuppa coffee is what I want...

I've been meaning to blog for a few days, but there just seems to be either too much happening, or too little, both of which means that I couldn't think of what to post! My trip home was great, spent a lot of time with my family, a few close friends, watched SRK's bulging unnatural muscles, discovered that Shahid Kapur is not as kiddish looking as I used to think and can look quite "ogglable" (I know thats not a word) and lost a good amount of weight - so as to justify why apparently my friends on Facebook think I'm 'number 2 person with the best body' in my network! Lol! (And yes, I'd like to know who is number 1!) I also met one of the music directors of OSO in Mumbai, and it was nice to see that success still hasn't gone to his head! Not that I know Bollywood people too well, but I think they're basically all megalomaniacs or some such...

The funny thing about life is that it doesn't turn out the way you planned it... Take these 2 weeks that I spent at home for example.. they turned out to be the exact opposite of what I had planned... I wanted to meet this particular friend of mine, and just before I reached Delhi, he had an accident that had him bedridden for like 3 weeks.. things would have been so different had we met, makes me wonder about the timing! And I'd thought it would be the most hectic trip ever, but turned out to be the most relaxed, with no shopping and no meeting relatives!

I missed a cousin's wedding thanks to the best Indian Airlines service that just cancels flights at the last minute without offering any alternatives to the passengers! But that's just as well because that meant I could legitimately avoid all conversations that usually go like this "So, when are you getting married? Haven't found anyone in the US yet?! These days girls go after what they want, you should too! Wait, let me talk to my sister's husband's friend's nephew - very nice boy, earning lots of money, doesn't/didn't have a American or Indian gf [picture me rolling my eyes with a 'yeah right'!], and better still, he's also on the East coast - in Texas"! To which I'd reply, smiling sweetly "Thanks for your concern Auntie, but I'm not sure you're the right person to be doing any kind of match-making. Awww, don't worry about me, I'll find a nice boy myself. And Texas is at quite a (safe) distance from the East coast anyways"... hmmm.. thank God for the unreliability of Indian Airlines :)

Somethng that happened this time also made me realize that I'm such a bad liar! You know, lying requires lots of practice! For someone who is used to talking straight from the heart and usually either speaking their mind OR keeping shut (which does not tantamount to lying per se!), lying means getting caught in their own web of "oh god, what did I tell him?... oh shit, is that what I told her the last time? Damn!" - Results can be disastrous. Oh yeah. For example, someone you used to know can suddenly bump into you at the international airport lounge and have you fumbling to try to figure out what you told them the last time you spoke, and so whether you're going to Paris or to the US or to Timbuktoo - which one is the "right" answer?!

Anyways, now that I'm back, I've got enough time to think about Life, the Universe and Everything, take some time to figure out what I want (most importantly which car I want to buy) and devise ways to get my work done while avoiding walking, talking or driving in the snow. Ah, and yes, drink a nice hot cup of coffee.


Promise to be back with a more coherent and less cryptic post the next time!

31 comments:

APOO said...

If life does not turn out the way you thought it would.... perhaps the wedding you missed might not have had old aunties but hot guys... just waiting for you to drop in!

Oh, you should buy a Hummer..... if not, then the Altima Coupe... or the Acura TL-S.

Please.... no Camry or Honda!

aRbit said...

You're back :) Will call you sooooon.
Buy the Acura TSX - the TL's too "grown-up".

Daroga said...

Welcome back !!!
you met WHO ????
waise let me tell you... lying se zada easy and effective and also dangerous hai "not telling 100% truth".

jai ho

S said...

yeah seriously ..life never turns out the way you thought it would..esp. an India trip..i came here because i wanted to relax and spend time at home but instead ended up attending weddings and meeting relatives , who are best avoidable !!

Renovatio said...

The thing about cars like the Acura is that they look great, they drive great, they feel great, but they have no soul. You don't get attached to them, and you aren't inclined to take a slightly longer route just so you can enjoy the drive more. Not even in an Acura nsx. It just seems to have no soul. You're more likely to love a 2007 Camry. Then again if a car for you only exists to get from here to there, then by all means, get an Acura.

And apoo, Acura's owned by Honda.

Zee said...

:( yes we didn't party or even meet up enough when you were here....... hope u still had a good holiday even if it wasn't the way you'd planned it :(

IR said...

SRK's bulging unnatural muscles- spot on

new car ooh always interesting - which one are u buying ? some fancy convertible ,2 seater ? perhaps to go with your facebook prize

Nasia said...

ihav read this,.
will come back with an intelligent comment soon..
kind of delirious now..

btw,.. as always nice blog

Keshi said...

Im sorry to hear abt ur friend. I hope he's better now.


**The funny thing about life is that it doesn't turn out the way you planned it

yes..its always the case. Thats why I hv stopped planning. Now I just do things spontaneously.


U missed ur cuz's wedding? awww...

Can I share that coffee time with ya? :)


Keshi.

Still Searching said...

`apoo
you know what? its just not the same without your pic! bring it back!!! lol! and honda civic 2 door sports model is damn good, you know it :)

`arbit
am back and our calls to each other are long overdue :) i am not sure i thanked you personally for the bday gift, so i need to do that!

`adarsh
yeah, thats definitely more dangerous... half truths are the worst actually, but i think i'm pretty good at those! jai ho :)

`s
no way! ur whole agenda was to eat ghar ka khana and stay at home and spend time with YOUR family! anyways at least i posted, thanks to your dhamkis, so that went as planned :)

`renovatio
i know exactly what you mean by a car having a soul! its like some cars call out to you and say, here i'm going to be your soulmate on the road for the next few years, come take me away with you (ok ok, thats a girlie version of how things work, but what the heck!)... so yeah, i know how it is.. my first car i fell in love with at first sight! that was the one and only time in my life i knew i loved something just as soon as i saw it! and so you can gather from this rant that cars are not just a means to get from here to there for me! not sure i like the camry though, none of the toyotas "call out" to me! lol!

`zee
i had a great holiday, though would've loved to party at least once during that time! :( and btw, lemme remind you that u didn't give me a bday gift, whereas I did give you one :) there, chew on that! :)

`ir
hahah! that'll be the day - hot car and a hot girl to match! oh, i wish (for both!)! lol!

`nasia
hehehe.. glad you dropped in anyways! :) thanks!

`keshi
thanks, my friend is much better now.. i also think there's no real way to plan your life, you just got to do what you got to do... and sure, coffee with friends is welcome any time :)

mathew said...

hahah..i guess anyone comin back abroad after spending a few days in india go through this..its not the jet lag..its just that there is no noise here..altogether different world..eh.

and btw i had to go through the same last time..attending a few marriages..who said guys are spared of it..we just give wry smile at them and they get the point!!;-P

a bit jealous too coz i dont expect myself to be home until next summer.:-(

Daroga said...

the question still remains...
"you met WHO ????"
:)

mathew said...

aahh..and btw by a Ford Mustang..or an Audi A8...;-P

Renovatio said...

Now this is one that just screams out 'take me take me take me'

Still Searching said...

`mathew
thats' the most useful piece of advice on this comments page on which car to buy :) lol! i'm glad that boys are also subjected to this torture of having to justify their singledom! and you're right.. some kind of a vacuum gets created when you come back here from teh hustle bustle.. but then when i landed there, i felt bombarded, so am not sure which is the lesser evil finally!

`adarsh
for some reason, i thought you were being sarcastic! ok, either way, i met shekhar from the vishal-shekhar duo who gave the music for Om Shanti Om.. they're pretty popular and famous now, thanks to OSO and Sa Re Ga Ma Pa, but am sure you know nothing about that! lol!

`renovatio
ummm... naaah! honda civic 2 door sports model.. now that calls out to me! :))

Daroga said...

Shekhar Ravjiani/Raviani... something like that. The other one: Vishal Dadlani.
Debut: Pyaar mein kabhi kabhi.
Shekhar is a trained singer and had contested Sa Re Ga Ma in sometime in 1990s when Sonu Nigam used to host the show.
Came back to the show as Judge... Hit-it Gharana. Raja Hasan (one of the finalists) was mentored by them.
Films : Dhoom 2, Cash, Bluff Master, OSO.
One of the best in business these days.

... and none of the above is from Google..... HOWZZATT !! :P

BTW.. u have very good contacts !!!

cm chap said...

Ha Ha... Your post gave me a precursor of what to expect when I land in India next week.

Marriage - oops I knw..I shd also tackle it as I go home.

So now ur back to US?

Indrajit said...

hello, i am late as usual,;P
I read somwhere tht ." if u speak the truth , u dn't have to juggle ur mind on what u told that person last time".

Nice reading your blog everytime. Reminds me of one Bose and Sen in th hindustan Times, Sunday column, where they write abt life , humor, with spontaneity and easiness...
keep going...

N relatives, gawd, i am eluding them since i was a kiddo,,, from comts like " Oh how plump he's " tht chngd after 5 yrs to " oh look , your son is so rickety " to god knows what...Godbless them....
Inquisitive morons .....
u tc.

Zee said...

the lunch was the present ruchi!!! the awesome soup and salad! u wasted the opportunity...u cud've asked for dessert!

Incrediblyirrational said...

hey you don't seem to miss India.
Aaah... what a relief!
that's just an observation and right now only that sentence is running in loop in my mind. so i HAD to write it.

Cool said...

Good to read your blog after a long time......

and life surely doesn't work the way you plan :)

SeePearrl said...

voww..looks like lot of intersting stuff going in your life :)

how are you doing?

Still Searching said...

`adarsh
oh my god! you actually know all this about him! ok, i concede :) shekhar was really nice, it was nice to meet him... i didn't know they had given the music for so many of the movies i liked, like salaam namaste etc, and came to know them only after watchng sa re ga ma pa this yr! and btw, the contacts are my brother's, not mine! his friends were recording an album at the yash raj film studios and i was watching the recording when shekhar walked in to listen to them... so its all thanks to my bro really!

`cm-chap
oh yeah, you better be prepared! if your own parents are not hounding you, then relatives will! :)) yes, am back in the US now...

`indr
wow, thats very flattering! thanks! yup, relatives are lovely aren't they.. never forget to tell you when you're darker, fatter or single :)

`zee
damn!! too bad i was only eating freakin soup and salad then!! bad timing for a bday treat! lol!

`nithya
u understood that from my entire post?! lol! well, its true to an extent, i dont miss any place as such ever... i miss my family and friends, but am not attached to any place as such, so it doesn't matter whether i'm in india or the US... i dont know, may be a hard thing to admit though! :))

`cool
thank you! :)

`white forest
am doing great! been a long time since you came by my blog! how are you doing? yup lots of things happening these days.. :)

Nisha said...

i identify with u so much..these relatives at the wedding...once i told an auntie...dont worry, ill find a guy myself!!!
and about lying too..everytime i do that..im bound to get caught! its a tough world for honest people :)

Daroga said...

wow... its so good to meet celebrities...
I have never met one :P
Bollywood to haath se nikal gaya ... lets see... Hollywood baaju mein hai ;)

Cuckoo said...

Okay, tell me quick, did you meet Vishal or Shekhar? I have a fair sized crush on the one who is not the bald one. He seems really sweet and has a splendid voice. If you met him, tell me NOW :) and how I can too!

Fuzzy, the Ducky said...

Hey, nice post. I'm sure the part about spinning your lies into a trap has happened to everyone. All I do, is smile and say "Hey is that a new watch?"

By the way .. I'm sure you know it already but the answer is 42

Unknown said...

good to see you back to the blog world...ditto with me...either have no time to write or nothing exciting to put down.
was so good seeing you. :)

Ram said...

hey there...welcome back.

-Ram.

Still Searching said...

`nisha
oh yeah! its tough alright! I've been getting myself into more and more trouble with the half truths! so i've given up finally and come out with the truth.. or almost the whole of it! lol!

`adarsh
its good to meet nice celebrities for sure :) hopefully you'll bump into someone here! keep us posted if you do!

`cuckoo
yup, i met the one you seem to have a crush on - shekhar! he IS really sweet, and has a good voice too, and is married! lol! how can you? have contacts like my bro :))

`fuzzy
lol, yeah true, i dont need to think about it all over again and all by myself!

`chaits
was great seeing you! i'm going to see krish next weekend after like 3 yrs! am quite excited.. its so nice catching up with both of u!

`ram
thank you!

Renovatio said...

I think it's time we got an update, I say.